Gifting

Gifting is not just about giving away presents. It is a way of showing appreciation and thoughtfulness to people. Having the perfect gifts should always be accompanied by the right words or expressions.

Examples:
This is especially made for you.
A perfect gift for a lovely couple.
I hope my sincerity reaches you through this gift.

In showing gratitude, use words that sound sincere and appreciative. Just keep in mind the time and money spent by the person just to give you something.

Examples:
I didn’t see it coming but I really appreciate your kindness.
Thank you! This really made my day.
I admire your thoughtfulness. Thank you very much.

Giving a surprise gift is sweet. But giving the wrong one is a nightmare. You can try to do research beforehand. Ask the people around you or base it on your knowledge about the person or the occasion. Remember every mall or shops have sales personnel. You can always ask them; soliciting advice won’t cost you any.

Examples:
What gadget does she want to have?
Which of the two sets of jewelry will she prefer?
What gift will match the occasion?

When giving gifts, don’t focus on how expensive the thing is. Price means nothing. Try to give because you want to. You will be remembered by your thoughtfulness, not by the price tag.

PS: Culture will also be a factor. Be mindful of the colors you choose and use (gift wraps, gift itself)

 

 Re-post from my blog at http://wanderingonasummer.blogspot.com

We’re In sync

 

I find it amazing when:

I saw these people, I really wanted them to be my friends and suddenly out of the blue, they send me messages or talk to me in person. No sweat, effortless.

I kept on stalking this somebody’s Facebook, then I was wondering if I can add her….the following day, I received a friend request from her.
It actually happened more than thrice already. Cool.

I was texting this person that I haven’t talk to for a long time. As I was about to press the send button, his number appeared. He was calling me on the phone. Sugoi!

My best bud and I were talking then we said exact the same words and we looked at each other laughing.

My sister and I while riding on a jeepney would stare at each other then we have the same thing in mind. For example, about the man’s shoes in front of us or about the girl with the glasses.

My room mate and I were talking then she wanted to say something but she couldn’t. By looking at her I knew what she was thinking. I spoke on behalf of her and she smiled. She was happy because those were the things she had in mind.

I’m no mind-reader, maybe because I’ve been with these people that I can relate to what they feel and think. However those people whom I wanted to be friends with, I just kept on praying they’ll enter my circle and they did. As I’ve watched once in a series, they say if you want someone to be your friend, they will be the one who’ll make an effort to enter your circle.”